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6 years ago
Re: I Love Sunday's - I Love You Our Handsome Amazing Elder - OXO
Hey Family!! Here is the talk that I gave at zone conference:) I hope you like it!What Am I Doing To Become A Better Disciple Of Jesus Christ?
By: Elder Jesse Carter, South Bay Zone
The question proposed in this talk is What Am I Doing To Become A Better Disciple Of Jesus Christ? The Lord reveals to us exactly what he requires to be a disciple of him in D and C 64:34, "Behold, the Lord requireth the HEART and a WILLING MIND; and the willing and obedient shall eat the good of the land of zion in these last days." If we desire the blessings both seen and unseen, the Lord wishes to bless us with, we must simply have our heart fully in the work, willing to mold our minds to the will of God, and be obedient to the commandments. For the actions that I am personally making to become a better disciple of Jesus Christ, I am going to focus on what it means to have your Heart in the work, having a willing mind, and being obedient to the commandments.
What does the Lord truely mean when he says he requires the Heart? To be one in heart with the Lord, we must be in line with the Lord spiritually. This would include repenting of our sins, dilligent scripture study, and ultimately, truely and sincerly believing the message of the restored gospel. For me personally, there are several key indicators that signify whether or not I am serving the Lord with fullness of Heart. Including the following: Am I able to teach and testify with the spirit? Am I loving the people, and yes of course the always present, are my feelings towards my companion worthy of being in the christ like attributes section of Preach My Gospel? We are not becoming better disciples of Jesus Christ until we align our heart, in other words our spirituality with the will of the Lord.
How through having a willing mind can we become better disciples of Jesus Christ? To have a willing mind means to allign ourselves with the will of God temporally. This means to be willing to live according to the rules and commandments we have recieved. Are we loving the missionary experience or are we merely going through the motions? Back home I loved listening to the talks of return missionaries in sacrament meeting. Not only because of their stories of running from dogs, strange food, and interesting companions, but also because of the spirit that they felt when they gave their whole selves to the Lord. One of my favorite quotes is "Forget yourself and go to work." Along with the quote found in Preach My Gospel, summarized as the following, "The answer to 95% of the difficulties missionaries face is work!" Through having a willing mind, we can become better disciples of Jesus Christ.
And lastly, how through being obedient to the commandments can we become better disciples of Jesus Christ? When we combine both the heart and a willing mind which would result in believing and living the commandments of God, we are being obedient. Through the scriptures the Lord has revealed to us that he is all or nothing! One without the other is not truely magnifying our calling. In 2 Nephi 27:25 it reads, "For as much as this people draw near unto me with their MOUTH (willing mind), and their lips do honor me, but have removed their hearts (spirituality) far from me. . . . ." To have one and not the other is not sufficient in the eyes of the Lord. I know that I have alot to improve and work on, but I know as I lean on the Lord and show him that my Heart is in the work, and I have a willing mind, through the spirit he will strengthen me. I say these things in the name of Jesus Christ Amen.Hey Fam:)Well this week went really really good! WE SET A BAPTISMAL DATE YESTERDAY!!! yayayayayayaya haha We are so happy that we finally have someone set up for baptism. It isn't the strongest of dates, but it is set for october 22. That is so weird that when he gets baptized (his name is james) I will almost have been out 1 year!!! Honestly crazy. . . . But yes, Elder Dudragne is a really good missionary. It is nice having such a good comp. It is so weird how the Lord always knows what is going on, and what lessons we need to learn. My last comp. elder pace NEVER accepted any of my service towards him. He never allowed me to share with him or anything. Which actually really played a negative roll in the companionship because he was too prideful to accept my service. Elder Dudragne on the other hand is always willing to accept my service, and he is always helpin me out as well. The best way to build companionship unity is for sure by serving them. It has really helped us work harder and better together and now the work is going better. We have alot of really good investigators that have alot of potential, we just need to start inviting all of them to baptism. It sounds like the ceremony for bryce went really well! That is so awesome that he is going to go to the U of U. That is an amazing school. Dad that is a really good idea to start thinking about what I want to do in school when i get home. . . I have been thinking about it a little bit, but I haven't made any decisions yet. I will start talking to people about there professions to get some feed back. Today we played basketball for pday:) That is usually what we do, but it was alot of fun! I think I am getting taller!! haha at least I hope so, ward members have been commenting on how I look taller. so YAY! Mom thank you for the bread and all the items inside of the package including the cd's. I am going to be giving those to these two different ladies that hooked me up with this awesome keyboard that I now have! Elder Dudragne always says that I have the best mother ever haha. He always wants my bread. It is really nice having the car as an option now. Lately we have been biking because we are basically out of miles. They allot us a certain ammount each month, and we are running low. But it's nice to drive around for a change. Being a district leader is fun, more responsibilities and stuff, but I think I like it. It gives me more of a chance to magnify my calling as a missionary. It is fun going on splits and what not. Some pretty sad news though, my 2 old zone leaders that I had last transfer rescently have been sent home because of things that they were doing with girls out here. One of them lived in santa monica (by the temple) for 8 months before his mission and he knew alot of girls over there. He had made it 20 months on his mission without hooking up with those girls, but he rescently was turned in by his comp. who met with president and admitted that they were breaking the rules. It really sucks too cause one of them came out with me but spanish speaking, and the other was my mission hero! He was an amazing missionary, and everybody respected him alot. It is really sad, but President must do what he must do. I guess even the greatest of missionaries can fall! Especially here in LA we are faced with ALL kinds of temptations. It is kinda tuff sometimes cause we are supposed to be in the world but not of the world, and it is hard cause we are literally surrounded with the world every moment of the day! But, the good thing is, is God is on our side. He doesn't want us to fall so all we have to do is lean on him and we are solid. Anyways, thank you all for all that you do. I rescently found out that I haven't been drinking enough water, not even close! And drinking enough water really has solved alot of the problems I was having. I may have mentioned this last week but I can't recall. But yeah, make sure you all are drinking enough water! It really helps:) I love yallLove Elder Carter the 5th.P.S. did you recieve the picture CD that I sent you? And mom, please remember to get the two checks out of it that I want you do cash and put into my account:) Thank you. Much much much loves. peaceOn Sun, Aug 21, 2011 at 11:47
Dearest Handsome Elder Jesse,
I Love You!!!
Well this week-end was Absolutely Fabulous. Bryce received his White Coat at the University of Utah which truly was an Amazing ceremony - the main theme of the program was "A patient doesn't care how much you know until they know how much you care." The purpose of the ceremony was to impress upon the incoming Dr.'s the importance of the doctor-patient relationship. It also encouraged them to accept the obligations inherent in the practice of medicine; to be excellent in science, compassionate, and lead lives of uprightness and honor. It emphasized the physician's responsibility to take care of patients and to also care for patients. The message conveyed that physicians should care as well as cure.
The Hippocratic Oath was recited which reads as follows:
I solemnly pledge to consecrate my life to the service of humanity. I will practice medicine with conscience and dignity. The health and life of my patient will be my first consideration.
I will hold in confidence all that my patient confides in me. I will maintain the honor and the noble traditions of the medical profession. I will give respect and gratitude to my deserving teachers.
My colleagues will be as my family. I will not permit personal considerations to interfere with my duty to my patients. I will maintain the utmost respect for human life.
Even under threat, I will not use my knowledge contrary to the laws of humanity. These promises I make freely and upon my honor.
After the ceremony Shelynne treated us with a fun dinner at the park and a darling cake that she had made of a Dr. with a stethoscope. We celebrated Bryce's Birthday and he opened his presents with lots of love and pictures from Shelynne's Mom and Dad and Grandma. Daddie and I drove up to Wolf Creek and enjoyed the Beautiful mountain's and fresh air, it was SOOOOOOOOOOOOO fun to walk around hand in hand with heaven surrounding us. The following morning Bryce and Shelynne cooked up a fun pancake breakfast and with tender hugs we traveled home just in time for Kenny's 1st Soccer game. Kenny was the "Star" of the team and they won Dixie Fire 5-1.
Truly Heavenly Father was watching over us this week-end. In my Patriarchal Blessing it says: Your guardian angel will watch over you and protect you as you go about upon the earth, that you might travel in peace and safety. When Bishop Peterson blessed me last week he also blessed me with protection as I traveled. Well on our way up to see Bryce and Shelynne we were driving on some very difficult freeways that were under a lot of road construction. On one stretch of road we had a huge cement wall next to us and a big semi truck on the other side. Suddenly for no apparent reason the semi truck decided to move over into our lane where we were. Daddie slammed on his brake's and made a sharp turn which allowed for the semi truck to barely miss us as he took over our lane. Daddie is an Amazing freeway driver and has saved our lives more then once because of his ability to drive and think ahead. The following day coming home a car next to us drifted over into our lane and almost hit us, Daddie thought that probably the person driving had fallen asleep and suddenly awakened. I love my Blessing as through the years it has been a great comfort to me.
Uncle Rex spoke in our ward and of course I took notes that I will be sending this week. We had a nice Sunday dinner with Ryan, Meagan and Grandma Mom and enjoyed Daddies' wonderful garden food. I went to take a picture so I could send it to you but the battery had died. Daddie thinks' that the garden is doing SOOOOO good because of your grass clippings that He and Kenny put out on the garden and tilled in. But I will take a picture this week so you will be able to see. Daddie fell asleep so Kenny and I went on a fun bike ride to the college and enjoyed my favorite time of the night - dusk -
Well I am lonely again as Kenny has now started school as you know - it is amazing that he is now a Jr. I will be teaching more students then ever before and I really do have SOOOOOOOO many projects going, food to cook, music to play and work but still I am lonely. Just as we returned home from church Ryan Carroll and his darling little wife Aimee came to see us with Ryan's sister Brittany and their new little boy Ammon - he looks exactly like Ryan. I rocked him to sleep and just loved every minute holding that precious little boy. Aimee said that Kenny was the cutest boy she has ever met and that she wanted her little sister to marry him when he gets back from his mission. She wants' to connect our families together.
This last week I had the carpets cleaned again as Moosey has now decided that the downstairs is his backyard - honestly. Say a little prayer for our "sweet" Moosey - I worry that now I am not his favorite person because I have to keep talking to him in a low voice to be good.
"Whistle while You Work."
"Promise me you'll always Remember:
You're braver than you believe, and
stronger than you seem, and
smarter than you think."
Christopher Robin to Pooh
Well Kenny is still on the car search, over the week-end he was hoping for a Mazda RX7 that was up for auction - Keith has been helping him but I guess that wasn't the right car.
Daddie is ready for bed and Kenny is now in bed with school starting early.
I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Proud of You, the Wonderful Mission You are having and the Great Missionary that You are. You truly are Amazing with your love for life, the work, your gift of music and writing. If you have time Daddie and I would Love to read your letter that was chosen among all the others that you read to all the other Missionaries. I wish I could have heard you play the "Prayer" - I Love listening to your CD and shed a little tear every time I listen to it.
Have a Wonderful week as you go forth and Serve with Honor.
You Amaze me in every way, I truly look up to You and Love You with All My Heart.
With All My "sweet" and tender Love,
Mama Mee OXO
Jesse,
It was really fun to hear all that has been going on with you and the mission last week. You will have to send us a copy of your talk that was chosen. I would love to read it. With you and your companion working so hard and working together like you are now I know that you are going to have some great experiences.
We had a fun time seeing Bryce and Shelynne. It is a great honor to have been selected to attend U of U medical school. I am very proud of Bryce and the good decisions that he has made in his life. Because of these decisions and his hard work starting in High School he has positioned himself to be able to achieve his very high goals. Because of his hard work he didn't have to settle for something less than what he has dreamed about his whole life.
Out in the mission field you will of course need to be concentrating on the work but you also need to be thinking about what you want to do in school when you get back. I remember that Bryce did a lot of thinking about this when he was out. He would talk to the members and the other people that he met. You also worked very hard in High School and I want you to remember to set your goals as high as you want. Just remember that you can do anything that you set your mind to achieving.
We have been having Ben, Dustin and Ryan do miscellaneous things around the yard while we wait for the contract at Brian Head. They have been changing the oil in all the equipment, working on the big trailer, cleaning up the rentals, fixing all the holes in the roofs, etc.. They have also been fabricating the rebar for the building up at Brian Head. I think for sure we will be able to start this week.
Keep up the good work!
Love Dad
My Dearest Handsome Elder Jesse,
I Love You!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well we just had a Wonderful Spaghetti Dinner at Dustin and Hillary's with Ryan and Meagan. We played Rook and Kenny was the Grand Winner!!!!!!!!!!! Little Libby wanted me to hold her, I put my lipstick on her and showed her how pretty she looked in the mirror. She also wanted to wear my bracelet's and loved my grey rose purse. Trevy is getting SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Big and loves his house and his very own room. Dustin and Hillary's house is fixed SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO cute as Hillary is very very handy and has made a lot of things.
Yesterday we went up the the Cabin and had a fun Steak Fish dinner with Shawn, Lindsey, Harlie, and Keegee. Kenny played the old piano and I danced with Harlie. The kids took us on a fun 4-wheel ride down the main road at dusk and honestly we saw at least 30 deer and 3 Mama deer with their little fawn's - One little Mama had a set of twin fawn's. One deer ran right out in front of us, that could have been bad when we were going along. We went down the main road for quite a ways and then they took us to a big swimming hole where the water come's out of a big pipe that was really pretty. We really had a fun time and wished that we could have stayed - we came off the mountain really late at night which probably wasn't such a good idea with the deer all around at night - Daddie is an Amazing driver. When we were driving up to the cabin a "sweet" black sport type car hit a deer and there were skid marks everywhere.
Well I hope you are receiving your packages on Friday as I forgot to put Perishable on the outside - I will try to remember. Your email last week was SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO encouraging and we truly are proud of You and all of Your many Great Goals. You are an Amazing Missionary - California is really really Blessed by You and Your Spirit and Musical Talent. Right now Kenny is playing the piano that always soothes my heart and many thought's.
Daddie continues to work very hard as usual and always carry's a heavy burden with all the worries of work especially that of having work not only for us but for Dustin and Ryan and other workers. The Brian Head job is in a waiting mode as they have been drilling 1500ft for water and are not sure if they are going to find enough water for the water pump. There have been other problem's as indicated but Daddie was able to work all of those out so just pray that they will find enough water so we can do that job which we will not know about until the end of August. About the Apartment's for Grandma, well because of the city ordinance's we will not be able to build Apartment's for Grandma. She just had my old house fixed up and Ryan has helped her to get it rented for school coming up. There are a lot of tender memories' from my old house. But Daddie and Chad bought some property for a good price and have been really thinking about building their own apartment's - it's a big risk right now with the economy and difficulties' in the world as you know. I just told Daddie that we need to fast and pray and Heavenly Father will let us know if building the apartment's would be a good thing for us and the boys right now. Please pray with us as we really need work - Daddie and the Boy's have SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much Talent and Abilities - if you just look around the city we have pretty much built this city including the beautiful building's on the College Campus. It's hard to go down to the yard and just see all of our work trailer's just sitting there.
Moosey is SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO funny, he just love's his pacifier and he Loves Me. Niki is SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO funny because she loves to cuddle up next to Daddie and he claims that he doesn't love dogs.
Kenny will probably be getting a car this week as Daddie and Kenny went to the bank to get a pre-approved loan - Kenny has been saving his hard earned money his whole life and is really excited. Kenny is a really good driver - I can hardly wait until he can drive me to St. George again for a day of fun - he is Wonderful.
Daddie's garden is really looking nice - as you know just Daddie and Kenny weed the garden now - I try to keep the weeds down around our home and work on our never ending yard. Kenny has been spending hours on the yard also planting Beautiful flowers - Daddie pulled out some old stumps with some chains and the truck as some of the plants had pretty much died but had deep root's.
"Whistle while You Work""The Lord is my strength and my song."Exodus 15:2"Walk with the knowledge that you never walk alone."I am sending You ALL My LOVE "Wrapped" in LOVE.Remember, remember my Son - "Love softens the Heart""Where there is hope, there is faith, where there is faith, miracles happen."Boy it seems like the summer has gone by fast - I am going to really try to enjoy every minute with Kenny before he start's school as a Junior. I was looking in a magazine yesterday and saw Halloween and Christmas decoration's - I could hardly believe it. One of my favorite things to do is to swing on the deck, smell the air especially when it is barely raining, look at our Beautiful Mountain, and remember You and Hawaii. I Love You with All My Heart and I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Proud of You.I guess I will wash my hair - everyone is in bed and the babies (dogs) are asleep right by me.Have an Amazing week and know that YOU are the BEST MISSIONARY in the WORLD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hey Jesse,
This past week I went on missionary splits. We fed them then we hopped in the car and I drove them to where ever they desired:) We first went to the Lovelands. The wife was just barely baptized but the guy I don't think had been . We taught them about missionary work and did a role play of me and brother Loveland it was pretty fun then after that we went to some other places down in the ghetto's of CC it was quite scary but sadly the people didn't answer their doors. One lady had her music blasting in the upstairs of her house but once we knocked she turned off the music so we would think she wasn't there then after knocking a couple times we saw her walk right past the door!! Once we started to leave she turned her music back on! It was way funny but also sad. Then we went to some other places but once again no one answered so we stopped by Elder Herr and Elder Garza's apartment and they showed me around it wasn't much but I'm sure that's how all missionary places are. haha It was quite the experience but It was awesome to see how a missionary's life is. Elder Garza taught himself the piano and even made his own keyboard with clothes pins haha but I told him to come to our house on his p-day's so he could practice. On Friday me and Dad went to Mountain America and got pre-approval for my loan:) I'm gonna spend 6,500 on the car and put down 1,000 so my loan will be like 5,500 I'm pretty excited. Keith is going to look on his site for some cars and then show me on his big screen what he can find then on friday is when the auction is so he'll probally go down to vegas and get it! So in just a few days I'll have one so hopefully next time I'll tell you what kind I got. But that's about it for me so hope everyting's going well and I'll talk to you later.
Love, Kenny
Jesse,
It was good to hear from you last week. It sounds like you have really loved this area but if you are transferred you will learn to love your next area just as much or even more! We will probably not know for a couple of weeks about the Brian Head job. They will be finishing up the well and then decide if there is enough water to proceed with the project. I think we will start on the preliminary work for the apartments as a filler until we decide to either proceed with the apartments or find some more work.
I am very proud of you and your hard work. Brother Beckstrom was over at our house today. He had a missionary experience with his wife on a fishing trip to San Diego and he said it immediately reminded him of you. Many people ask about you and how you are doing. It is nice to be able to report that you are doing so well.
Love,
Dad